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<p>Last night after "After Miss Julie" (yo!) I waited for <a href="http://www.sarahbsadventures.com/" target="_blank">SarahB</a> and <a href="http://www.theatreaficionado.com/" target="_blank">Kevin</a> on the top floor at Angus, sipping wine and reading about who to blame for <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200910/moguls" target="_blank">the current state of the media</a> and <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200910/california-energy" target="_blank">poor old California</a> by candlelight as masses of bedazzled (or simply dazed) tourists streamed out of POTO and Brooke Shields dined in the corner.</p>
<p>Random point #1: I quite enjoyed this article on <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/doc/200910/british-wit" target="_blank">Ricky Gervais and Russell Brand</a>, which I read earlier in the week at the bus stop. (Does my location at the time of reading matter? No; I want you to think I get around, that's all.)</p>
<p>Random point #2: <a href="http://www.thephantomoftheopera.com/" target="_blank">POTO</a>. I can't disparage people who love this show&mdash;I too like comfort food&mdash;but perhaps something else has appeared on Broadway in the last 20 years that is worthy of their attention.</p>
<p>Random point #3: I feared I might be blinded for life when a woman, exiting the restroom, kindly held open the door for me and then accidentally swiped her arm across my right eye. Which, because I happen to wear <a href="http://www.allaboutvision.com/contacts/rgps.htm" target="_blank">rigid gas permeable contact lenses</a>&mdash;and they are not kidding with that word "rigid"&mdash;heightened the sensation to what I can only describe as a sort of <em>scraping</em> against the surface. But I am a trouper! So I spent the rest of the evening laughing at the table while one eye gently wept (and the lid mildly swelled). But this morning I have not even a shiner to show for it, so I couldn't shrug nonchalantly and whisper "Bar fight" to the teller behind the bulletproof glass at the bank.</p>
<p>Random point #4: Even with one eye closed, I can tell you that Brooke Shields is flawless.</p>
<p>Wrap-up: "<a href="http://www.roundabouttheatre.org/aat/index.htm" target="_blank">After Miss Julie</a>" was surprisingly solid for a first preview, and well worth the $10 I paid for admission.</p>
<p>Follow-on: New York in almost-autumn is a rare, fleeting gift. Get here now.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.persistentcookie.com/storage/admin/18%20Mmmmbop.mp3">Mmmmbop (Hanson)</a> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://mediaplayer.yahoo.com/js"></script></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/bright-star.html"><rss:title>Bright Star</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/bright-star.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-09-17T00:47:39Z</dc:date><dc:subject>John Keats movies poetry</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img style="width: 580px;" src="http://www.persistentcookie.com/storage/Bright-Star.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1253150120773" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/bright_star/">Bright Star</a></p>
<p>The love story of John Keats and his muse Fanny Brawne&mdash;lo, things do not end happily! I hope this is not a surprise to you, but you have been spoiled nonetheless. A gorgeous film, as one would expect from Jane Campion, although a fairly stagnant tale, since there is only so much DRAMA to be forced from a certain decline, and what's there feels overlong, slow to start and repetitive thereafter. Thus one lucky gent behind me spent half his dime on snoring. What burns brightest&mdash;beyond the words&mdash;are the performances, each of them perfectly pitched and wondrously human, though I was most touched by <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0773973/">Paul Schneider</a> (who up till now I've known only as an asshole on "Parks and Recreation") here playing a different kind of asshole as Keats's friend and sometime patron Charles Brown, and <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0289098/">Kerry Fox</a> as Fanny's <em>&uuml;ber</em><strong>&nbsp;</strong>-patient mama. Then, too, there's Fanny's young brother Samuel (played by Thomas Sangster), who as the only male in the family is her constant escort, a sort of silent specter always trailing behind, struggling to fill a role twice his size and far beyond his understanding.</p>
<p>★ ★ ★ ☆ ☆</p>
<p>Bright star, would I were stedfast as thou art&mdash;<br /> Not in lone splendour hung aloft the night<br /> And watching, with eternal lids apart,<br /> Like nature's patient, sleepless Eremite,<br /> The moving waters at their priestlike task<br /> Of pure ablution round earth's human shores,<br /> Or gazing on the new soft-fallen mask<br /> Of snow upon the mountains and the moors&mdash;<br /> No&mdash;yet still stedfast, still unchangeable,<br /> Pillow'd upon my fair love's ripening breast,<br /> To feel for ever its soft fall and swell,<br /> Awake for ever in a sweet unrest,<br /> Still, still to hear her tender-taken breath,<br /> And so live ever&mdash;or else swoon to death.</p>
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<p>Words can never tell you, however, &mdash; form them, transform them anyway, &mdash; how perfectly dear you are to me &mdash; perfectly dear to my heart and soul.</p>
<p>I look back, and in every one point, every word and gesture, every letter, every <em>silence</em> &mdash; you have been entirely perfect to me &mdash; I would not  change one word, one look.</p>
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<p>&mdash; <a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=XJOX92YhJNYC&amp;pg=PA536&amp;lpg=PA536&amp;dq=%22I+would+not+change+one+word,+one+look.%22&amp;source=bl&amp;ots=vSDkqs9vFR&amp;sig=lXeDWSa0XyRnfemaOemLljCa0gE&amp;hl=en&amp;ei=JourSuTRCIKolAeo3YDMBg&amp;sa=X&amp;oi=book_result&amp;ct=result&amp;resnum=4#v=onepage&amp;q=%22I%20would%20not%20change%20one%20word%2C%20one%20look.%22&amp;f=false">The letters of Robert Browning and Elizabeth Barrett Browning</a></p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/friday-and-its-raining.html"><rss:title>Friday and it's raining</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/friday-and-its-raining.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-09-11T19:38:46Z</dc:date><dc:subject>DeVotchKa Emily Dickinson miscellany music poetry</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I keep deleting posts, when really I need to stop thinking so much because I'm driving myself insane. It's the day, or the weather, or both. So let's clear the pipes and get along with our weekend:</p>
<p>1. PARIS! (via <a href="http://blog.piajanebijkerk.com/WordPress/category/paris/">pia jane bijkerk</a>)</p>
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<p>2. <a href="http://readingclub.tumblr.com/">Come join a new book club</a> (via my friend R.A. Porter). My only question re: the list of suggestions was whether men will read books written by women, about women, if they don't include zombies. His response was encouraging but not conclusive.</p>
<p>3. Tomorrow night SarahB and I are seeing <a href="http://www.firebonetheatre.com/emily.html">a play about Emily Dickinson</a> at the Fire Bone Theatre, which is a tremendous name for a company. So, with advance gratitude, <a href="http://www.bartleby.com/113/4034.html">Emily Dickinson</a>:</p>
<p>The daisy follows soft the sun,<br />And when his golden walk is done,<br />Sits shyly at his feet.<br />He, waking, finds the flower near.<br />"Wherefore, marauder, art thou here?"<br />"Because, sir, love is sweet!&rdquo;</p>
<p>We are the flower, Thou the sun!<br /> Forgive us, if as days decline,<br /> We nearer steal to Thee,<br /> Enamoured of the parting west,<br /> The peace, the flight, the amethyst,<br /> Night's possibility!</p>
<p>4. Forgive me if this song annoys your browser (blame Squarespace for the lack of a native audio player, which is the one thing for which Tumblr is ideal), but I love it too much, and like to keep it close at hand.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.persistentcookie.com/storage/admin/surface.mp3">Queen of the Surface Streets (DeVotchKa)</a></p>
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<p>5. I don't know. Next week I'll try to be more normal. But for now, go. Breathe. <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/de_la_luz/3906787063/sizes/o/in/pool-15252600@N00/">Smile</a>. And please bring my mail to the top of the stairs.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/quoting-frank-zappa.html"><rss:title>Quoting Frank Zappa</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/quoting-frank-zappa.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-09-06T13:53:18Z</dc:date><dc:subject>miscellany quotes</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote>
<p>Forget about the senior prom and go to the library and educate yourself, if you&rsquo;ve got any guts.</p>
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<p>&mdash; Frank Zappa</p>
<p>Somehow Johns Hopkins Magazine has been spying on my inner thoughts, thus giving me exactly what I was searching for: <a href="http://magazine.jhu.edu/2009/08/the-autodidact-course-catalog/">The Autodidact Course Catalog</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/summer-night-at-the-opera.html"><rss:title>Summer night at the opera</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/summer-night-at-the-opera.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-09-06T03:47:52Z</dc:date><dc:subject>opera</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wouldn't you like to relax outside on a warm, breezy late summer evening in New York City and watch an opera FOR FREE? Tonight the Met screened the recorded performance of <a href="http://www.metoperafamily.org/metopera/season/production.aspx?id=10024"><em>Orfeo ed Euridice</em></a> as part of its <a href="http://www.metoperafamily.org/metopera/broadcast/template.aspx?id=8586">Summer HD Festival</a>, so we sat in the middle of Lincoln Center Plaza, with the sound of taxis honking and sirens blaring in the distance, and watched Stephanie Blythe tear a piece of sky from the heavens (er, Hades) in the name of Heart's Desire. Goodness! It was, shall we say, divine. Including the hot dog.</p>
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<p>And I am on cup #five.</p>
<p>However, this is not the point.</p>
<p>In 2008, super blogger <a href="http://www.mightygirl.net/">Maggie Mason</a> started a Mighty Life List: <a href="http://mightygirl.com/2008/03/03/100-things-to-do-before-i-go/">100 Things to Do Before I Go</a>. This seems fairly self-explanatory so I will not trouble you with details, although you might be interested in reading about how <a href="http://mightygirl.com/2009/06/29/turns-out-my-fairy-godmother-wears-a-clean-suit/">her list is being sponsored by Intel</a>, which is highly amazing all on its own and not likely to be repeated, so let's not kid ourselves. But there is ample reason to create a life list, and a mighty one at that&mdash;ABOVE ALL, TRY SOMETHING, said Franklin Delano Roosevelt, and although he never made a rap album or co-hosted New Year's Rockin' Eve with Ryan Seacrest, that dude was no slouch when it came to achieving, and it was his equally clever wife who said DO ONE THING EVERY DAY THAT SCARES YOU&mdash;so I will start with items 1&ndash;10. I won't comment on the sense or sensibility of these items, so please don't ask, but I'll revisit this list at appropriate intervals to make additions and check my progress. And who knows? We might just get somewhere.</p>
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<li>Finish writing (a) book.</li>
<li>Run a 10-K.</li>
<li>Take a cooking class.</li>
<li>Read <em>Anna Karenina.</em></li>
<li>Spend a week on a boat in Greece.</li>
<li>Pass the <a href="http://www.pmi.org/CareerDevelopment/Pages/AboutCredentialsPMP.aspx">PMP exam</a>.</li>
<li>Publish a short story in <em>The New Yorker</em>.</li>
<li>Spend two weeks at a <a href="http://www.namgyal.org/events/retreats/">Tibetan Buddhist meditation retreat</a>.</li>
<li>Learn to speak French so I can</li>
<li>Live in Paris.</li>
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<p>+ Follow Maggie Mason's <a href="http://www.mightygirl.net/mighty-life-list/">Mighty Life List</a> progress.</p>
<p>+ More on creating life lists and personal manifestos from <a href="http://www.gwenbell.com/blog/2009/9/2/how-to-create-your-personal-manifesto.html">Gwen Bell</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded></rss:item><rss:item rdf:about="http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/the-september-issue.html"><rss:title>The September Issue</rss:title><rss:link>http://www.persistentcookie.com/blog/the-september-issue.html</rss:link><dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator><dc:date>2009-08-30T22:00:17Z</dc:date><dc:subject>movies</dc:subject><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.persistentcookie.com/storage/sept_issue.png?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1251669842619" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/september_issue/">The September Issue</a></p>
<p>Not so much the unmasking of the real "Devil Wears Prada" (thank the gods almighty) as a look at the collective rigors of making a thing&mdash;and an expressly female thing at that&mdash;in which every detail matters and every decision costs, as well as a testament to the cold reality that the slender frame girding the $300 billion fashion industry belongs to a supremely capable businesswoman who has zero interest in whether or not we like her.</p>
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